【以案释法】岳父母起诉女婿支付18万“带娃费”，法院判了
<section style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><section style="font-size: 16px; text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><br></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 20px 0% 10px; text-align: left; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(175, 26, 1); align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><section style="line-height: 1; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p></section><section style="margin: 14px 0% 4px; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1px; padding-right: 28px; padding-left: 28px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p><div style="text-align:center"></div><p></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"> 为减轻年轻人的负担，现在老人帮子女带娃的现象较为普遍，特别是对于双职工家庭，有老人帮衬着实能省心不少。那么爷爷奶奶、外公外婆帮忙带孙辈的，是否可以要求支付“带孙费”呢？</p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"> 近日，浙江衢州市柯城区人民法院智造新城人民法庭审结了这样一起“带孙费”案件，判决孩子爸爸向外公外婆支付10.5万元。</p></section></section><section style="line-height: 1; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: 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row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; border-style: solid; border-width: 2px; border-color: rgb(175, 26, 1); min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; padding-top: 3px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><section style="text-align: justify; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(175, 26, 1); line-height: 1.5; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;">案情回顾</strong></p></section><section style="margin-right: 0%; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="height: 1px; background-color: rgb(175, 26, 1); box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><section style="margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left; line-height: 0; width: 0px; vertical-align: top; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 0%; margin-left: 0%; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 2; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; visibility: visible;"></p><section style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; visibility: visible;"> 年近古稀的陈某和夏某，本应在家安度晚年，享受天伦之乐。2012年，癌症夺走了独女夏某珍的生命，只留下10个月大的外孙女。考虑到女婿姜某在外地工作，见不得外孙女受苦的陈某和夏某，便将外孙女接到自己身边抚养，却没想到，姜某自此当起了“甩手掌柜”，除了一开始的时候给了点生活费，之后几乎没有出过钱，也几乎没来看过孩子。随着外孙女的长大，生活费和教育费的开支也越来越多，两位老人与姜某多次沟通未果。</section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> 2020年4月，姜某回到衢州工作，陈某和夏某再次与其沟通依旧未果。无奈之下，这对老夫妻向柯城法院提起诉讼，要求女婿姜某支付自2012年10月至2021年10月的孩子抚养费合计18万元。</section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> 庭审中，姜某辩称，他支付过抚养费，也并没有不闻不问，况且陈某和夏某是自愿抚养孩子，相应费用也是他们自愿出的。</section><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"></p></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;border-color: rgb(175, 26, 1);min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;padding-top: 3px;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;align-self: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(175, 26, 1);line-height: 1.5;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;">法院判决</strong></p></section><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-bottom: 5px;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="height: 1px;background-color: rgb(175, 26, 1);box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="margin-bottom: 0em;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;margin-bottom: 0em;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"></p><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> 柯城法院审理后认为，<span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);"><strong>父母对子女负有抚养义务，有负担能力的外祖父母，对于父母无力抚养的未成年外孙子女，才有抚养的义务。</strong></span></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> 本案中被告姜某<span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);"><strong>具有抚养子女的能力，为被告抚养女儿并非两原告的法定义务。</strong></span>被告的女儿姜某某长期由两原告直接抚养，原告为此要求被告支付相应的抚养费，具有事实与法律依据。关于抚养费的数额，根据双方当事人在庭审中的陈述，可以认定大部分抚养费由两原告负担，但也不能排除被告承担部分费用的可能。对原告的诉请，柯城法院酌情参照2012年至2020年浙江省农村常住居民人均生活消费支出的70%左右确定为10.5万元。</section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> 经多次组织调解，双方无法达成一致，柯城法院遂综合全案考虑，判决被告姜某支付原告陈某、夏某抚养费10.5万元，并驳回了原告陈某、夏某的其他诉讼请求。上述判决双方均未上诉，现已生效。</section><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"></p></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;border-color: rgb(175, 26, 1);min-width: 10%;max-width: 100%;flex: 0 0 auto;height: auto;padding-top: 3px;padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;align-self: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(175, 26, 1);line-height: 1.5;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;">法官说法</strong></p></section><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-bottom: 5px;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="height: 1px;background-color: rgb(175, 26, 1);box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="margin-bottom: 0em;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;margin-bottom: 0em;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 2;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"></p><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> “哀哀父母，生我劬劳”。在我国大多数家庭中，老人不仅养育了一代人，还帮他们养育下一代人。然抚养未成年人子女系为人父母的法定义务，并不是祖父母、外祖父母的法定义务。只有当父母均已死亡或无力抚养时，有负担能力的祖父母、外祖父母才有抚养未成年外孙子女的义务。<span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);"><strong>本案原告起诉的“带孙费”并不是照看孩子的辛苦费、劳务费，而是要求被告支付其垫付的抚养费。</strong></span>原告陈某、夏某抚养未成年的外孙女，彰显了家庭亲情、人伦道德；但被告作为未成年子女的父亲，在妻子去世后更应尽到抚养义务，多陪伴和照顾孩子，给孩子一个健康的成长环境。</section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"> <span style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170);"><strong> 长辈帮忙带娃是基于对子女及孙辈无私的爱，却不该是理所应当的事。</strong></span>为人父母应当传承这份无私奉献的善良并常怀感恩之心，积极履行自己的抚养义务，勿让老人出钱出力又寒心。</section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 40%;align-self: flex-start;flex: 0 0 auto;box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="text-align: right;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 90%;border-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-top: 1px dashed rgb(201, 198, 198);box-sizing: border-box;margin-bottom: 0em;"><section style="margin-bottom: 0em;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;margin-bottom: 0em;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="line-height: 2; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em;"><font size="1" color="#696969">来源：中国普法</font></p><p style="font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box; margin-bottom: 0em;"><br></p></section></section><br>
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