江小渔 发表于 2022-11-13 15:45:00

【城中校友文章展播02】一个人的强大,从治愈自己开始

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background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; visibility: visible;"><p style="visibility: visible;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; background-color: rgb(255, 236, 234); visibility: visible;">编者荐语:城口中学80周年校庆系列活动正在火热进行中,校友征文活动也在如火如荼地开展,征文将在后期陆续展出,现将部分城中校友日常所写优秀文章进行展播,这些文章虽不属于征文范文,但反映出城中校友的出色水平,提供给大家扩展阅读,权且抛砖引玉,助推校庆盛事。</span><span style="font-size: 17px; visibility: visible;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" style="visibility: visible;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="visibility: visible;"><section style="visibility: visible;"><section class="" style="visibility: visible;"><p style="text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><br/></p><p></p><p><br/></p><section style="text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">1</span></strong></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="visibility: visible;"><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">我经历过两次创业失败。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">第一次是摆地摊。</span><span style="text-indent: 2em; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">我去批发市场选购了一些汽车挂件饰品,然后去夜市摆摊,或去加油站、停车场这些地方推销。</span><span style="font-size: 18px; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;">尽管做了很多努力,但由于选品不是很恰当,推销经验又不足,卖出去的饰品寥寥无几,最终只能把货物亏本处理。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">第二次是和朋友合伙开卤菜店。</span><span style="text-indent: 2em; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;">因为是加盟的品牌,我们还去这家品牌的食品工厂里学习了一段时间,把卤制、切配、用料等尽悉掌握。</span><span style="font-size: 18px; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;">经过一系列的准备,小店终于开张。在前期宣传和开业活动的促销下,最开始业绩挺不错,我们也对未来充满期待。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">可好景不长,由于我们加盟的品牌内部产生了矛盾,几位创始人闹分家,一时间许多门店都面临断供。然而因为合同的限制,我们又不能售卖其他品牌的卤菜,在苦熬了一段时间后,只得把门店转让出去。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">面对自己的失败和家人的不解,我一度消沉颓废、几近抑郁,再也没了当初那种敢拼敢干的劲头。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">直到无意间读到一本小说,里面的主人公也同样各种不顺,却一直没有退缩。相比之下,我的遭遇似乎不算什么。</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">在那一刻,我突然有了觉悟,开始认真工作,努力赚钱去还清债务。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">都说挫折让人成长。</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">一个人从幼稚走向成熟,也就是一个自我疗愈的过程。</span><strong><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;color: #007AAA;">所谓强大,不过是曾经的伤口结了痂,受伤的地方变得更强壮一些罢了。</span></strong></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435"><section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>2</strong></span></section></section></section></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">去年,我堂哥的服装厂遭遇了一场火灾。</span><span style="text-indent: 2em;font-size: 18px;">事发深夜,仓库库管擅离岗位外出,等到发现着火,火势已失去控制。尽管全力扑救,仓库里的大半库存</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">还是被烧毁了。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">听闻消息的供应商和采购商们蜂拥而至:供应商们要求结算货款,采购商们要求按合同供货。还有工人需要安顿、事故需要善后,工厂没办法正常运转,</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">堂哥一时间急得像热锅上的蚂蚁。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">但他并未消沉,而是</span><span style="text-indent: 2em;font-size: 18px;">立即着手解决问题,一面筹集钱款,跟供应商们协商结算;一面和同行沟通,把采购商的订单转接过去。</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">过程十分曲折,也损失了很多财产和客户资源,但总算转危为安,工厂可以重新开工了。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">因为堂哥的仁义,工人们一个都没有离去;而堂哥的诚信也为他赢得了不少厂商的支持,工厂的生意很快又走上了正轨。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">很多人都感叹堂哥的强大,但少有人知道堂哥很早就在外打拼,一度穷困潦倒,睡过公园挨过饿。创业初期,拉不到客户、筹不到资金,那时面临的困难一点都不比火灾的时候小,但他还是一步一步地走过来了。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">人生不如意之事在所难免。</span><strong><span style="font-size: 18px;color: #007AAA;">有些人碰到挫折就一蹶不振,有些人则在一次又一次历练中锻炼出了强大的自愈能力。</span></strong></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 18px;color: #007AAA;">很多时候,面对苦难时的抉择会决定往后的生活状态。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 18px;">痛苦一时还是痛苦一世,往往就在一念之间。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435"><section><section><section style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>3</strong></span></section></section></section></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">网上有人提问,如何才能让自己从痛苦中走出来?</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">网友们众说纷纭,归纳起来,无外乎两种办法:</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">一种来自外界,依靠别人的帮助;</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">一种来自内心,学会治愈自己。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">外界的帮助可以很快解决问题,也容易让人产生依赖;内在的觉醒,尽管过程艰难,却能带来更顽强的生命力。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">每一个人都有苦楚,很多事都有难处,但也正是这些不顺利在逼迫着我们不断进步。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">风雪的摧残,成就了雪莲花的惊艳。</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">物如此,人亦如是。</span><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">唯有沐浴风雨,才能不惧风雨。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;color: #007AAA;">饭要自己吃,路要自己走,成长路上的难关也要靠自己闯过去。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">一个人真正的强大,都是从治愈自己开始的。</span></section></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><br/></section><hr style="border-style: solid;border-right-width: 0px;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-left-width: 0px;border-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.098);transform-origin: 0px 0px 0px;transform: scale(1, 0.5);"/><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">来源:人民日报| 作者:江小渔</span></p><section data-role="paragraph"><p><br/></p></section></section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(68, 68, 68);font-family: -apple-system-font, Helvetica, " pingfang="" hiragino="" sans="" microsoft="" text-align:=""></span></p><p></p><span class="js_img_placeholder wx_widget_placeholder" 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235);text-align: justify;letter-spacing: 1.5px;line-height: 1.75em;color: rgb(144, 79, 64);padding: 1em;"><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;font-weight: 700;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;">作者简介:</span></span><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;font-weight: 700;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;">江小渔,<span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;">本名周远承,曾在重庆市城口中学校就读七年。初2007级、高2010级学生,后在2011年复读一年,毕业于武汉理工大学,现任<span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;">重庆犇壹科技有限公司运营总监。</span></span></span></p><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"/></p><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;font-weight: 700;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;">另有笔名江枫,</span>重庆新诗学会会员,<span style="overflow-wrap: break-word;">四川散文诗学会会员,</span>重庆城口作协会员,多平台原创作者。</span></p><p style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"><span 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在路上的小熊 发表于 2022-11-13 16:28:12

能够让自己从困苦中走出来,确实不容易
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