吃货妹
发表于 2023-3-23 17:10:38
【晚8点红包】城友们，你觉得家长应该如何对待青春期的孩子
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张大头
发表于 2023-3-23 17:38:48
我没经验
太阳的光
发表于 2023-3-23 18:51:56
比起学习，家长更应该关注他们的精神世界和心理健康。
TVT
发表于 2023-3-23 18:52:33
试着做他们的朋友，少一些说教，多一些倾听。
princes
发表于 2023-3-23 18:53:04
留意他们的交友圈子，物以类聚，人以群分，这是家长了解孩子的绝佳途径。
重庆杠把子
发表于 2023-3-23 18:53:23
不要暴力对待，这样孩子只会更加逆反。
漫步云端a
发表于 2023-3-23 18:54:05
要尊重孩子的独立性，不要把自己的想法强加给孩子，而是尊重孩子的个性，尊重他们的选择。要给予孩子足够的空间，让他们自由地去发掘自我，探索自己，让他们有机会去尝试各种新事物。
迪安娜
发表于 2023-3-23 18:54:26
要和孩子多多沟通，尊重孩子的意见，倾听他们对事情的看法，积极和他们讨论，而不是一味地斥责，责骂，把他们当作小孩子看待。
茵梦
发表于 2023-3-23 18:55:03
与青春期孩子沟通和交流时要学会换位思考，学会尊重青春期孩子，善于倾听。
立习习
发表于 2023-3-23 18:55:25
善于倾听。与青春期孩子沟通和交流时，要学会做一个倾听者，而不是教育者。允许孩子在合适的场合发泄不良情绪，等到孩子情绪稳定时，可以选择合适的方法与孩子进行沟通和交流，教会孩子如何控制自己的情绪，而不是与孩子辩论谁对谁错。