吃货妹 发表于 2021-3-10 00:00:00

【情感求助】弟弟要娶媳妇了,彩礼钱该由我来出吗? ...

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大班长 发表于 2021-3-10 12:23:52

伏地魔??没有那个义务吧

杨结 发表于 2021-3-10 12:25:33

莫借,这个口子开了要不得,以后你自己家还会有矛盾

石永丹 发表于 2021-3-10 12:52:06

无理取闹,自己不会挣钱啊

石永丹 发表于 2021-3-10 13:42:13

相恨见晚,继续加油!

思源逢逢 发表于 2021-3-10 18:44:31

多少给一点

结果果 发表于 2021-3-10 19:55:21

可惜给一部分

皮克桃 发表于 2021-3-10 21:59:09

一点不出说不过去的。出一点当结婚的人亲钱

沧海桑田 发表于 2021-3-11 10:34:37

就说你也负责借不到多少

你不知道的 发表于 2021-3-14 20:19:08

不该      
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